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Wondering

Please pardon the dust as I am currently under Construction.  😀
Hello everyone, feels like it’s been forever since we’ve last spoken.  Did you miss me?
Since I promised everything random here we begin with randomness at its best.  🙂  I have been reading this book named Boundaries and it has been such a great read so far.  I have to say my understanding of personal boundaries is getting better.   I wonder did I ever tell you that I am the person who will never say no and who will consistently sacrifice for others. I didnt realize it was such an issue until a time came that I was unable to do something for someone and I was belittled because of it.  I had held this person at such a high regard. (What do I know about people who lack character or common sense for that matter)
I think what bothered me most was that I felt like I was being selfish.   ME… I was feeling like I should’ve done more. I’m sorry for being so transparent but WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING????
Can I be honest? Can I say. .. I AM DONE?? Will my heart let me do it?  These people are not just friends or people I’ve just met, these people are family; people that are suppose to love you and help you.  (I wonder if my perception of family is skewed)
Boundaries is helping me understand things in a different way. It has been an eye opening journey that l am welcoming with open arms.  So… my apologies for the next posts that may seem even more random than this one. Stay well and like the therapist on the 1st Wives Club says. … “Grow..from love” <_— I giggle every time I hear that phrase… it’s so cheesy but I love it!!! 😀

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